Because in most cultures Christmas became a commercial holiday where you end up rushing around to spend money you don’t have to buy crap that will end up in a landfill within 6 months (90% of gifts do) for people you don’t like.
Feeling festive? Yeah, me neither.
1-Make time. Save an afternoon to do this
2-Write a list of the people you actually love. This could be one person or ten. It could include a partner, family, friends, and even yourself. If you have no one on your love list go for a like list. If your like list is empty I have a task for you into the new year ;) message me.
3-Now sit. If you want to have christmas music, hot coco, and christmas lights around you that is entirely up to you. Not a deal breaker. I want you to sit and think about the first person on the list and make something for them. I want you to try and make them feel loved. NO BUYING CRAP ALLOWED! Make a drawing, write a couple of lines, make them a bag of mixed nuts or make them cookies. What I want you to do is spend some time thinking about the people you love and how to make them feel that you love them.
You’re welcome ^_^